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I write when either of the 2 things occur, I am very free and have nothing to do, or when I stumble upon something really good I thought I should reflect on it and share some thoughts from it. Sometimes it might just be stumbled over something, sometimes it can be stumbled by something.
i don't want to appear soooooo hor-ducated and talk like I know know kno kno no no no no o o o o .. it all, because i don't and in my imperfection I have thoughts and emotions too, which you may not agree with, nor will you see eye to eye with. but isn't that what pushes your thinking buttons and isn't that what makes you sit up and rethink many decisions you have made in life... because an imperfect perspective which is different from your perceived perfection throws a spanner into your momentum of motion.
JUST SCOLD ME.... I get rebukes so many times when I question things, when I question technicalities, when I question intentions. people publish it all over the blogs about how wet blanket i become when i ask question or put an alternative perspective. Name calling and labelling, these are nothing more than the actions an intimidated, intimidating the threats that intimidate their validity on the grip of things.
It leaves me unfazed when you do name calling, murmuring or bashing (some call it cyber-bullying) because the truth is in what you place your security in.
BUILDING (CHRIST-LIKE) COMMUNITIES Well, I want to share with you about something written by Henri Nouwen (and I encourage you to read his works yourselves, just like i read your's at opportune moments, instead of selectively choosing only what you want to read which agrees with your line of thought and philosophy; as that would narrow's one's mind, doesn't it?)
As people in my community grapple with many changes lets explore, in Henri Nouwen's words, what is community.
HE SAYS... He shares, 'Community is like a large mosaic. Each little piece seems so insignificant. One piece is bright red, another cold blue or dull gree, another warm purple, another sharp yellow, another shining gold. Some look precious, other ordinary. Some look valuable, other worthless. Some look gaudy, other delicate. As individual stones, we can do little with them but compare them and judge their beauty and value. When, however, all these little stones are brought together in one big mosaic portraying the face of Christ, who would ever question the importance of any one of them? If one of them, even the least spectacular one, is missing, the picture is incomplete. Together in one big mosaic, each little stone is indispensable and makes a unique contribution to the glory of God. That's community, a fellowship of little people who together make God visible to the world'
'The basis of community is not primarily our ideas, feelings, and emotions about each other, but our common search for God. When we keep our minds and hearts directed towards God, we will come more fully "together".'
Lets plough through this together, but before i continue, make a few acknowledgement and recognise a few realities we must face up to.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS Firstly, there is a season to everything. And being at a certain place/community for that season, and leaving when the season is up, is a natural course in life we all take. How do we know the season is up for you in that community and for you to move on, is something that everyone will ask, and trust me, my answer will be 'poison' to many. Afterall, one man's meat is another's poison, wasn't it? So lets not get into this whole area, unless you ask, of course.
Second, Change is the only thing Constant (and perhaps, to combat that, we need communities, because change can be controlled, or even responsibily managed). These being said, let me go back to the 2 paragraphs I took our from Henri Nouwen's Can you drink the Cup? and see what realities we can learn.
THOUGHT ONE - The Big Picture... Community is like a large mosaic. Henri brings out the point that we all have to fit into a larger picture, purposefully placed there for a reason. Some of us are bright and shiny, and believe that we should stand out in the crowd, noticed and given the rights of the glamarous, since our comtemporaries which are shiny and blink blink gets so much recognition.
We become dissatisfied when we are placed beside the duller looking pieces, and share the same 'glory' with them. We become unhappy when no one really notices our needs, when we keep twitching our blink blink bodies to get the attention we want, some attention to come and polish us, so that we can SHINE better in the picture, hoping to believe that the more shiny we are, the nicer the picture would look.
What becomes worse is that we start looking down on the neighbour beside and say that they don't deserve to sit here because they are not as shiny as you are. We start to talk about 'dropping out of the picture' since it is starting to look gaudy with Mr. Gaudy standing beside me, we start moving around. What happens then, to the picture, which we had first started out to form? Have we forgotten the responsibilities we committed to for the rights we shared? Our season is up? Have we risen enough duplicates of ourselves in the community to ensure that when we leave, another just as shiny piece can take over? If we haven't, then we must seriously rethink about this whole season talk.
THOUGHT TWO - Individualism in Community Henri also mentioned something which hit me very hard, and that was how the community that we shared being about our ideas, feelings and emotions that we had. Instead, despite acknowledging that we have difference, recognize that we have one common, underlying and totally important desire. That desire was what created the community in the first place, and that desire was, is, and will be God and His will.
He mentioned that when we kept our minds and hearts directed to God, that also meant, focusing our energies on the Cross and the work of the Cross, we will come more fully together, or we can view it to be, we are more united in mind and heart.
It takes courage for us to admit that we have differences, and more courage for us to address these differences; but we need to rise above pettiness to co-exist with these difference. So that we choose not to take offense with someone else's opinions and actions, but communicating concern about how that action fits into fulfilling the task of everyone else, and underscores the objectives of the community.
Communicate, not condemn. What we need would be encouragement for us to understand that we have a choice to lay down our lives daily and take up the Cross. We can only feel offended because anger is basically an emotional response to another persons' violation of our rights.
That encouragement constantly rings in my mind, because I am often reminded that when we take up the model of the Cross, Christ did not fight for His rights, as the universal laws will never punish an innocent man, much less hang him on the cross to die as an atonement.
Notice that the only mention of individualism and rights in creating a community is the fact that we actually deny them for the greater identity of the community. If we were seeking for a 'hollywood effect' feeling, then we make sure that we join a community seeking the same thing.
This is true because when the community communes for the common purpose, speaking the same language, having the same desire, it actually 'frightens God'. I am not saying that God is a scaredy cat, but lets refer to Gen 11:6 'behold, they are one people (isn't that a community?) and they all have the same language (isn't that unity in speech?) And this is what they began to do, and now nothing is impossible for them.'' The Scripture clearly states the effect, and the powerful effect of a group of people who are willing to unite for a common cause. This, because of Christ's redemption, has provided His community a tool to use for the benefit of the us.
Concluding Thoughts... Just as there is very Lous Voutton bag, there would always be the imitations, which can serve the same purpose of putting things within, but have stolen an original concept which never was intended for them.
Be careful of how the devil uses our tools and weapons against us. We can always shine our very best, but for whom do we shine?
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Posted on November 02, 2007 @ 2:55 pm
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i know!
its a rare chance to see me blogging but i just have to this time round.
no whys, no how come, no reason. AND no oh my god i cant believe you blog. i just did.
was just standing in front of the binding machine trying to bind some thick stack of paper.
duh, who binds the thin stack. heh
anyways, current atmosphere: its raining outside,
my eyes chance upon a cup of nice hot coffee that my boss just bought from starbucks.
so take a deep breathe, smell the coffee in the icy room.
and this take me into my dreamland. oh i forgot to tell you the design of the cup.
there's santa, snow. yes! christmas. its reminds me that christmas is coming!
my daydream.
inside a cosy home, seated at the coffee table with piggy.
sipping some nice warm coffee/tea, staring out of the misted window.
where it's snowing. and nice music in the background, isnt it a beauty?
now, its gets me excited that christmas is coming, i dont know why.
its not the pressies that's getting me excited.
i cant tell wad either, it just something so special so special.
more than just special, something wonderful, awesome and victorious.
my savior was born.
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Posted on May 20, 2007 @ 10:29 pm
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i'm so excited!
guess why? muahahahaha
cos mun's getting a NEW phone! its like finally can!
you see, he has a dropped his current phone like more than dont know how many times, and there's a very long crack at the back, don't ask me how long, i didnt measure.
so he'll go, "if the crack line comes to here, i'll get a new phone".
no, the crack line has not reach it's 'final destination'.
well, anyways i'm happy that he likes/loves wad he is getting!
3 cheers for YOU. greatness! loveness!
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| Seasons of Time |
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Posted on May 18, 2007 @ 2:04 pm
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Let me do a small introduction of what I do to give you some context of this entry.
I run a small company called Compass Training Hub (Pte Ltd). I function as her Research and Training Developer, as well as its Managing Director (since Sept 06). When I took over the company, it was a small company (which still is) trying to stay afloat, it had plenty of potential but few potential clients.
I pumped tears, sweat, blood, prayers and effort with the rest of my team, and today it is seeing black ink on the bank balance, and its fledging. We have clientale, opportunities, work and things going. Most importantly, we have hope and a future.
It wasn't my hard work alone to give life to this. I think importantly, we religiously say 'Thank God, Praise the Lord, it was God's plan...' and its so cliche isn't it? Sounds like church talk that will put off many. But honestly, I spent alot of time praying, and as much time working on Marketing plans, product development.. etc etc.. with my team. And without this team, there would be no Compass Training Hub. -----
I have resigned.
When I broke the news to some of my closer friends, who didn't know why, they couldn't comprehen why I would make such a decision. Afterall, I was living the dreams of many, at 23 years old. Own company, rising up, training portfolio, etc etc..
But let me share this with you, I call this the seasons of time. I stood by them in our toughest of times, when the accounts were red, and life was tough. I asked if you would run alongside with me, and we make things turn upwards.
You did.
We made it through.
There is indeed a time for everything. To me, success isn't about the car I drive or the person I date (although yes, I'm extremely fortunate and 'successful' I'm dating such a wonderful and gorgeous girl!) or the house I live in, or the fat bank account I have. I have seen success in CTH, and the lives which are impacted by the things we have embarked on. We have arrived to a point we develop real things that affects real people. That makes people stop in their tracks and think.
And I stopped in mine to think too.
Many of my friends asked if something happened within the company, I was unhappy about something? No.
I am more often than not, happy, contented and glad to meet my partners. We have a relationship that started off as friends, and whatever it is, will remain closer friends. I like my work, its my comfort zone and my area where I function well. I have a competant team which helps me see my blindspots and we are learning to work well with each other, sharpening each other's skills, talents and gifts.
I have an opening which is to do what I have always been wanting to do. Youth Work. CTH does youth work in a real way, programmes, activities, etc etc, values changing programmes... and its great. It has potential to move forward to become greater and better. I has potential for a greater marketshare and creates sound programmes for students.
There is an opening for me start work on a new programme. A new challenge and a new spectrum of training that I am going to undertake. And I look forward to the job with mixed feelings because it is within my sphere of influence to affect many lives; yet I am leaving a comfort zone, a place I put in alot of effort and emotions.
It is not for the money, because CTH has alot of potential to gain market share, and edge forward.
Its Seasons of Time. My time with CTH is up for this season, and I am moving on to another organization which will allow me to give them my best, which I have given you (Compass Training Hub) these years. It is now your time to rise up to the occasion and build your altar for God, and give thanks and carry on the good work that you have been doing.
I am moving on to a new organization to build my altar for God, and make my life His living sacrifice too. (its a non-profit organization okay!)
I, for now, will run behind you, slowly fading out for your independence, holding you till you can walk firmly. I will be here, just lesser, just gentler.
I want to thank you, Peter, Boon Chun and Winston for the opportunity to work this way with you. I leave the management of Compass Training Hub into your good hands, and God's.
My Season with you was one where I learnt alot, and what I learnt will go forth many folds into the lives of many young people ahead.
It started here, and you will see where you reap, remembering the days you sowed in my life..
Cheers, Mun
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| I am Off Coffee... |
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Posted on April 02, 2007 @ 2:20 am
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Alright, I've promised not to post religious stuff on the blog since i started writing ten thousand years ago. and i'd try to keep to that promise most of the time. but in view of Good Friday and Easter coming, i can't help but be reminded about what was done on the Cross 2000 years ago. I am not going to preach, I promise, but i am going to share with you something different. so well, savour... since i hung my pens 2 years ago... you gotta wait a long time for one of these..
I had a wager with my brother and dad on Saturday, last day of march o7. my brother kept condesendingly harped on me being a coffee addict, or caffeine addict, that i couldn't live without my daily intake of the drug, and would not be able to function etc... and i boldly, or crazily told him, lets' have a wager, i'd keep off coffee for one week, Sunday to Saturday, no coffee beverages, sweets etc...
my dad immediately agreed, thinking i won't last or be able to function, of which of course, pressured my brother into the deal as well...
and...
and I would get a coffee of my choice. of course, expect nothing less than my much savoured cafe latte, but this time round, i'm eyeing the blue mountain coffee from coffee club. (i told each to have about SGD$10, nothing less per cup)
my bangalah friend told me that SGD$10 is what some people live on for a week...
damn him.
besides the point. we are entering Holy Week this week. a time we remember this Man called Jesus, who for no reason other than someone else, went and hung on a Cross for them. He gave up His life, because the story went on by telling us that the rest of us can live. and today i want to talk about giving up. i hope min won't kill me, because her previous entry is about the phone of her dream.. (oh well, what to do, she found the man of her dreams...)
i really enjoy coffee, like the very much me, i enjoy life pretty well. every cup of coffee i have, i only want to drink the nice, creamy and balanced tasting coffee, whether at starbucks, of the coffeeshop. i can tell when the coffee is overdone, water too hot, or milk not fresh.
i can even tell if they were serving me stale brew.
(trust me, decaf tastes horrible!!)
its just one of my indulgence, and i can go for almost 4 cups unknowingly.
and for the next 7 days, i am giving it up. whether i am getting my treat at the end of it or not.
i want to bring you to 3 Ds, Discipline, Determination, and Death, morbid as it sounds.
Discipline. i always told my workshop participants that discipline has a friendly word to substitute it, called self-control. essentially, it both requires us to DENY ourselves of a certain gratification for a greater purpose, cause or reason. sometimes many of us cannot see beyond that point, the big picture is out of sight. but that is normal. i promise you it was a struggle when no one was looking, to order a coffee at the coffeeshop, and drink it. out of habit, out of gratification, out of enjoyment.
my fleshly desires.
Discipline and integrity might be best friends in our minds i think. when no one is looking, the best friend of discipline is really integrity.
Determination. that's grit. when you are at starbucks. 2 things that stopped me from getting my cafe latte, if you didn't know, i only drink that, and only that. No sugar, please. that's besides the point. well, determindation to reach the point i was committed to was key. i asked myself that if Jesus Christ didn't commit to hang on the Cross, no one would've ever understood the true meaning of Grace.
if i didn't put in determination to reach the end point, where is the grace i sought to see during this period i'm off coffee. the grace to see that i am still given 'pleasures' in other ways other coffees.
Death. oh wwelll. i couldn't find a bette word that started with D i think.. but this word really explains what i want to share. the death of the bodily desires. the wants vs. the needs. and putting the needs ahead of the wants, and living without wants. that's as good as the death of human fancies and frills, to really focus on the essentials, the important and the mainstay reason of things.
this Good Friday is a good time to wonder why we even have such a day. this Good Friday is a good time to wonder why we remember the hanging on the Cross of a sinless man by calling it GOOD FRIDAY. this Good Friday is a good time to as ourselves, are there things we can sacrifice for a greater purpose, like the Man who sacrificed His life for a greater purpose.
i didn't have to quit coffee for the week to prove anything.
He didn't have to die on the Cross to save us.
BUT. He sacrificed Himself to save us; i merely wanted to know what sacrifice meant.
Have a Blessed Holy Week.
Mun
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Posted on March 15, 2007 @ 12:46 am
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i went phone shopping online and yes! i found a phone i like LOVE.
its the sony ericsson w660i the rose red colour its Fantabulous!
( let me share me joy with you )
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Posted on February 26, 2007 @ 3:55 pm
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i've been thinking alot lately. so much that i can feel like my brains getting older, more used.
there are so many things in life.
so many things that will happen.
so many things that have happened.
but know wad, it doesnt change my/our care for you. so dont think that no one cares for you, there are. you dont see it, feel it doesnt mean its not there.
shift your eyes abit, you might see something different. a bigger picture.
its always my prayer to see you grow in the Lord. find rest in Him okay?
love is always in the air. even your enemy loves. so how much will the Lord your God love you?
i care, min
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Posted on February 17, 2007 @ 6:06 pm
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Dear You,
you have changed. the way things were previously, where we could still chat and enjoy the talks in the friendship, has been superficial talk, and even unkind remarks to put each other down. the play, the fun, the sarcasm. where have you been.
we tried asking you out before, and you stood us up; promising to make up, but never did we have the opportunity thereafter. you never called, texted nor asked when we met weekly. you seem to have forgotten clean about it.
we have always wanted to include you in our company, like how we included many of our friends. we enjoyed your company, when you were kind, gentle, endearing and sweet. today, you have found new friends, and perhaps kin alike.
and you forgotten us. they seemed more hip, more popular and more happening. we are merely star-studded, starbucks drinkers. chilling would not be at our cosy homes because we haven't had one yet, but our company at starbucks were just as fun.
once upon a time, the real you had been approachable, teachable, non-bitchy, non-threatening, endearing, fun, outgoing, listening. where has the bulk of this unexhaustive list gone? today, talking to you, you seem often distracted, somewhere else. you don't seem to really be present in conversations, we talk about nothing more than how ugly each other might have become.
you were quick to love, and slow to put down. today, you are quick to smash down people, and slow to....
i am not judging you, i am just letting you know that i am sad we have become hi-bye pals. and we are extremely saddened by it.
we miss you. and we mourn the loss of your company.
the 'real-you' company.
love; and that never changed, we still do love you alot,
mun.
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Posted on January 25, 2007 @ 6:41 pm
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when you say nothing at all when you talk alot but say nothing
its weird at how we can actually feel the same thing yet pretending that there's nothing.
the same feeling dwells in us, but wad are we doing about it?
hahahaha if you understand good if you dont its alright, its just some of my thoughts.
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| we're back! |
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Posted on January 17, 2007 @ 8:41 pm
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oh well,
we've been absent for a while, and we're back!
look out for this space and expect alot of rantings and journalling as we share with you snippets of our thoughts, days and moments together.
take care and cheers!
mun & min
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Posted on October 23, 2006 @ 9:00 am
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go compare and contrast!!
Your view on yourself: You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you. The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for: You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship: You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love: You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on education Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.
The right job for you: You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success: You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of: You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self: You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
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Posted on October 20, 2006 @ 3:37 pm
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Get to know yourself better
Your view on yourself: You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for: You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship: You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love: You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on education Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you: You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success: You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of: You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self: You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
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Posted on October 03, 2006 @ 4:00 pm
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its been years since i, sleeping beauty, last updated. wad to do, i'm well-known for not updating.
when the earth still goes round and life carries on i feel that i'm getting older these days.
i realised life has not been a bed of roses. and it's true.
what i want to say is, there are all kinds of people on earth.
its up to us to choose to get along with them.
who says when there's conflict there's no love?
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Posted on August 18, 2006 @ 4:36 pm
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and when things looked impossible, the sky was losing its colour, the people where murmuring, the odds were against them.
the other team was better, of course stronger, they had much more money, of course talent along it bought.
the whistle blew loud and crisp, and 22 men went into a fury, 3 ran without a ball, all with eyes glued on.
ohwell, we know who won, the one that MacDonalds' would fed, one happy meal was it, and perhaps because they wore red.
when liverpool won the charity shield, i thought ronald macdonald must'd a hand, in wearing blue and and stand still, at chelsea's goalpost clowning twice.
so that gave them the 2 goals win, a clown and a happy meal, macdonalds' cup it felt like, their premiership journey starts.
its not how you start that counts, but how you end that wins, today is macdonald cup you lift, 'morrow's ronald red nose you wear.
and then you never walk alone, take you fans, they'll walk with you..
Glory Glory Man Utd! ------------------------
says who you can't have soccer and love at the same time! they co-exist okay!
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Posted on August 10, 2006 @ 12:13 am
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Here I start my first post on this site...
Hi,
I'm Mun, the proud owner of mel0, and of course, the co-owner of Chippy. I haven't blogged in ages, and I am now grappling with the powerful livejournal thingie. Too much techno-power I think.
Anyway, let me start with going thro some rules with you. Of course, any good establishment, like mine, has parameters for us to walk within. The rule of the thumb, in most blogs I noticed, is if you don't like what you see, please leave. I'm sure I totally agree with it. In anycase your curious self leads to not get out, rule of the thumb also makes provision for you to.. SUCK THUMB. Its not called rule of the thumb for nothing.
Well, life is very fair. We, the writers, will also exercise some form of restrain, or what is also known an social responsiblity, self censorship etc.. We will not write things that will cause an unheveal, or upset too many people. If we were critical of someone or something, we'll not have it penned here.
So if you think we wrote something about you, or a matter that you were emotionally involved in. Don't take it too personally, or you mean you have some guilty consciences that makes you think we wrote about you?
Next, Melo and Chippy, are (unfortunately, if you think so..) officially a couple. Sensitive word to many people? We reckon. We welcome support in prayer and kind, but if you have unkind words or uncontructive comments to pass about us, save it. Nevertheless, should it happen (oh as expect... ), we won't do rebuttals, nor do we defend ourselves. There is no need to, and we do not owe it to you.
If you really meant well, you'd have acted more responsibily, and asked us out for a cuppa. Yes, for support, please write cheques payable to "Lai Mun Loon". We take all currencies. Be rest assured, the money will be put to good use like dry-cleaning, maintenance and chippy mel0 to hang out. Of course, all these will cost money you know.
We are committed to edifying entries, observations that will make you not feel like the smallest creature in the world and words that wants to build you up. But if you realise that we have the power to do all those, we also should have the power to do opposite.
My point is, don't piss us off over nothing. Its really not worth it.
Next, I hate vandals. I'm brought up in Singapore, where we 'split the backside' a.k.a cane such selfish dopes. So if I catch you doing that on my site, you'll catch me doing that to your backside. (no offense to the choice of words, just needed something rhyme.)
We have a set of beliefs, and you better respect what we believe and never poke fun at it. See, I'm helping you not get on our nerves.
We believe in: 1. God, Godhead, 3 in One. Father, Son and Holy Ghost. 2. Our parents being inportant to us and our relationship, for advice, guidance and blessings, 3. Our spiritual mentors playing a a role of mentors to us both, 4. We have a relationship of inclusion, where we welcome warmly our friends to be part of our journey, hang out with us etc etc. 5. We know our limits and you better respect our limits as we respect it.
I'll update you when we update this...
Well, we hope you have a nice time reading about us, our funny antics, but most importantly, our lives together.
Oh..what an intro of myself!
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Posted on August 05, 2006 @ 2:38 pm
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this is chippy and mel0.
haha in short, they are mel0chip.
this journal will be their life journey.
sit back relax and enjoy their life.
those not interested can just leave. no obligations.
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Posted on August 01, 2006 @ 5:13 pm
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what is the difference between you and me?
the answer is U and I.
haha! this is a very chim question.
if you get it you get it,
AND
if you don't you don't.
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